- J.B. Lightfoot
David Wayne, a.k.a. The Jollyblogger, highlights a post from Tod Bolsinger today on the mandate Jesus gives to His followers for generosity, specifically in relation to the Christian's reputation with restaurant waitstaff.
It's a subject we've discussed a few times before.
Bolsinger, inspired by Tom Wright, writes:
In the middle of my sabbatical, while reading through a wonderful, thick tome on the ministry of Jesus by N.T. Wright, I stumbled across two words that were used to describe a key characteristic that Jesus’ expected of his followers: “astonishing generosity.†I liked the phrase. I rolled it around in my brain. But I also found myself disturbed by it. It seemed almost impossible.
The quote itself was a reference to Matthew 5:38-42, when Jesus tells his followers “to turn the other cheek†when struck, “give their cloak†when asked for a coat, or to carry a load an “extra mile†when a person makes you haul something for one. He is saying in effect, that even when people use or take advantage of you, they in the words of Bishop Wright, “must be met with astonishing generosity.†(Jesus and the Victory of God, p. 290)
Wayne writes:
One of the things [Richard Pratt] challenged me to do was to become a regular at the Bistro across the street. He said I need to go there often and our church members need to go there often. And, we need to be such excellent guests and tippers that waiters and waitresses want to fight over who gets to serve us.
This is a hot button issue for me. On more than one occasion I have heard and read people who say that wait-staff in restaurants do not have particularly good impressions of Christians and that for some, Sunday is the worst day of the week because of the church people. The church people are generally seen to be rude, demanding and poor tippers. So, Pratt's exhoration to me was to do my part in changing the reputation of Christians in that regard.
Sunday evening, Becky and I were dining out, and our waiter messed up our order in a few ways. He was very nervous for having done so. He ended up giving us a free appetizer and a free dessert. And even so, I could tell he was fearful of the compensatory repurcussions of his mistakes. I decided to give him a 50% tip, because even if he didn't know we were Christians, I wanted him to be astonished by grace after we'd left.
I don't say that to brag but merely to encourage you to think of small, practical ways you can extend grace to people. Not necessarily to "evangelize" or further your or the Church's reputation, but just because it is a Jesus sort of thing to do.
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More on ‘Astonishing Generosity’... In a rather complicated series of interrelated blog posts (which I have no intentions of trying to summarize because I doubt I could maintain any semblance of coherence), David Wayne over at the JollyBlogger had offered his thoughts on a post by Tod Bo...
note to self:
Get a waiter job at one of the establishments that Jared and family frequent.
"A Jesus sort of thing to do"........AJSOTTD........I like that better than WWJD........and I like the anonymity of your act - that's what makes it AJSOTTD.....for an OT guy, Dr. Pratt has got some good and practical NT theology......I had him for an OT Survey class when I was on staff with Campus Crusade many moons ago.
Great idea! And what's even better, Jared, is that you acted on a great idea, turning it into a grace-act. I find that it's much easier for us to agree with things like this in principle than in practice.
Thank you for this post - especially the last paragraph. We would spread a lot more grace if we stopped thinking of people as evangelism projects, and instead just tried to see them as Jesus did.
Doing a good deed counts for something important, even if the recipient doesn't become a Christian as a result of it.
Whoa! Asbell! This is a day I'll have to mark in my Calendar. ;-) I appreciate seeing your post, Asbell. You don't know, I'm sure Jared and De will warn you about me. I hope all is well with you and yours.
There are many ways that we can be generous, not just when it comes to leaving the tip. Sure the waiter is working to make money, but we can be generous with our time, our constructive criticism, even our understanding.
Just a thought....
Regards,
Erik
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I am working on "An Experiment in Generosity" and have started a blog. Please take a look and provide feedback and/or participate.
http://yoursmallchange.blogspot.com/
Regards,
Erik
Awesome, Jared.