- Phil Schroeder
“There is no such thing as a non-working mother” (Hester Mundis).
That Moms are special is self-evident. Every person with a mother knows this. Many of you are mothers, or are married to a mother, or are friends with one. Thank God for mothers and motherhood.
Mothers make society better. Mothers make families better. Mothers make individuals better. In human society is there any force more powerful than a mother’s love?
For most of us, if the rest of the world abandoned us, one of the people who would still be there would be Mom. How great it is for a child to know that whatever he does, his mother is still going to love him. Someone once said, “A mother holds her children’s hands for a while but their hearts forever.”
There's a reason for the cliche "a face only a mother could love." A mother's love is simultaneously legendary and assumed. Pardon the reference, but was anyone surprised that the last woman on earth who would still stand by Tiger Woods was his mom?!?!?! (I'm pretty sure Lex Luthor's mom still loves him too.)And as a much more positive example, is it surprising to any reader of any culture to see that the very, very small group that still remained at the foot of the cross included Jesus' mother?
I know that the Bible reveals God as Father, so don't accuse me of saying otherwise. But can you see a mother's love as a reflection of God the Father's love for us? ("He created man in his own image, male and female he created them.")
The Bible says that "Every good and perfect gift comes from above." Everything good we have is a sign pointing us back to our creator. For example, marriage is given to us as a picture of Christ's love for the church. I believe that mothers are given to us as perhaps the best earthly picture of unconditional love, the kind of love that God has. (Only his is much more so.) But could we even imagine unconditional love if God hadn't given mothers the gift to love as they do?
The Bible acknowledges the great worth of mothers. I have adapted the classic passage about a Godly woman in tribute to modern mothers. As you read it, thank God for the mothers in your life.
“A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it. Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long. She shops around for the best deals and clips coupons. She's like a trading ship that sails to faraway places like Sam’s and Wal-Mart and brings back exotic surprises. She's up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day. She looks for the best deal on the internet, then, with money she's put aside, she buys things for her family.
First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started. She senses the worth of her work, is in no hurry to call it quits for the day. She's skilled in the craft of home and business management.
She's quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out to help the poor.
Her husband is proud to call her his wife.
She always faces tomorrow with a smile. When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say, and she always says it kindly. She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, and keeps them all busy and productive.
Her children respect and bless her; her husband joins in with words of praise: ‘Many women have done wonderful things, but you've outclassed them all!’ Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God. Give her everything she deserves! Festoon her life with praises!” (Proverbs 31:10-31 -Adapted from “The Message” by Eugene Peterson).
“No man is poor who has had a godly Mother.” – Abraham Lincoln
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Bobbi,
Thanks for your response. I'll jump in now so that this comment thread doesn't start going in a direction that neither one of us intends and say that this is not the case with every mom currently working.
I agree that it's better for moms to stay home with their kids if they can. But not all can.
For those who can't, and I know many, comments like these can be quite painful.
Bobbi, I don't believe you meant any hurt towards anyone. I'm just saying it now... :-)
I also agree that the woman's lib movement (that taught women that it was shameful to be a stay-at-home mom) was wrong and even harmful. I just don't want any current working mother to read this and think you are saying that they have been deceived by the devil.
Proverbs 31 always reminded me of what a godly loving woman MY mother was. It is such a sad thing that MY sons don't have a mother like you described above or like is described in Proverbs 31. It makes me sad and made for a sad day on Mother's Day that my sons could not celebrate with a mother that loved them (or would even talk to them). Sorry for the downer.
Shrode--You are right. I didn't mean to hurt any mom but I do think more moms are figuring out how to stay home or else the dads are staying home while the mom works. Deacontrek--I pray that the Lord will restore the years that the locusts have eaten. Nothing is impossible with God. There is hope!

I think that many moms of the 90's and up have come to the conclusion that it is better to stay home with your kids rather than spend yourself in the outside, paid, workforce. Mom's of the 60's were fooled, or fooled themselves by the lies of Satan.