A Will Conformed to Reality

Macy has this curious little dialogical habit when dealing with the unpleasantness of not getting her way. A conversation will go like this:

Macy ? I want the white glue and the blue glue, Dad.

Dad ? Here?s the white glue. I don?t see the blue glue in here.

Macy (whining) ? Daaaa-dy! I want the bluuue gluuuue.

Dad ? It?s not in here, Mace. I don?t know where it is. Just use the white glue for right now.

Macy ? I just don?t want the blue glue, Dad.


For the sake of brevity, I?ve edited down the typical exchange here, as usually it takes longer to get from point A (I want the blue glue) to point B (I don?t want the blue glue). But do you see how she tries to make it look like she?s changed her mind, to make it look like she?s really getting her way? She does this all the time, and my guess is that it?s her way of still asserting some sense of control even when dealing with a reality she didn?t desire to begin with. Sort of her way of saying ?I can?t have it? Well, I didn?t want it anyway,? but thinking she?s being sneaky about it.



But, hey, for all I know, maybe she is actually changing her mind and just dealing with reality. And when I pondered that today, a spiritual lesson landed in my head. How often does what we want coincide with the reality God presents us with? Not often. But the key aim of following Jesus is conforming our will to His. We have to get beyond the point of doing God?s will grudgingly, out of a sense of duty, as if, had we our druthers, we?d rather be doing something else.

Of course, had we our druthers, we probably would be doing something else. I?m taking for granted that followers of Jesus will want to do what Jesus wants them to. I?m assuming that we will realize that God knows what is best for us, and so even if the task He calls us to seems hard or unpleasant or unexpected, we will ultimately want to do it.



But first we have to want to want to do it, and that requires conforming our will to reality. Setting our desires and plans aside, we embrace God?s will. We change our mind about what we wanted before and decide to really want what God gives us.

The dialogue may go like this:

Me ? I hate my neighbor.

God ? You have to love your neighbor.

Me ? Okay, but I don?t like him.

God ? You have to love him.

Me ? I know I have to, but I don?t want to. It?s too hard/embarrassing/humbling/etc.

(insert a time of spiritual negotiation here, in which God?s terms don?t change, but my mind and heart does)

God ? I am God, and I say you must love your neighbor.

Me ? Because you are God, I will not only love my neighbor, I will want to love him.


In our case, of course, it?s not a game. We don?t ?appear? to change our mind to provide a semblance of compliance. We truly, honestly conform our previously stubborn will to the inevitable reality of God?s will. We embrace it, by changing our mind and letting our heart follow. Or maybe it?s the other way around. In any event, we don?t settle for merely doing what God commands; we commit to enjoy doing what God commands and conform our will to the shape of His reality.



We decide that if there?s only white glue to be had, we don?t want the blue glue anyway.

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Comments on "A Will Conformed to Reality":
1. jez - 10/15/2004 10:40 am CDT

hi jared,

i just today finished up lewis' perelandra, which i found extraordinarily moving (ransom's dialog with maledil as he struggles with his inadequacy/fear etc. really touched me). But in your post, macy reminds me of the green lady, for whom there is no fruit better than that which she is eating in the moment.

2. Bill - 10/16/2004 3:58 pm CDT

Jez



Heh! What an awesome insight!



Glad you liked Perelandra :-)

3. salguod - 10/18/2004 4:34 am CDT

I've been going back and forth about whether to comment here. I'm trying to better understand your thoughts about the will, Jared. How does this idea of conforming our will to God's square with your position that we have no free will of our own? If God's in control of all and directing all, how can we say to have conformed our will to His, as you suggest here?



Not trying to attack, just trying to understand.

4. Jared - 10/18/2004 6:17 am CDT

This is why I always try to confine the typical talk of "free will" to the area of soteriology. Because I see a clear biblical divide between the pre-Christian's fallen will and the saved's redeemed will.



If you'll recall from our previous discussion(s), I said a few times that if anyone has a "free will" it is the Christian, because he has been set free from the bondage of his sinful nature. The non-Christian's will is not free because it is in bondage to sin. But when Jesus sets it free, it is free indeed.



I'll illustrate thusly:



Prelapsarian Adam -- free will (free to sin, free not to sin)

The Fall

Descendants of Adam -- fallen will (free to sin)

Salvation

Christians -- free will (free to sin, free not to sin)



Freedom in Christ separates those who are still in bondage to sin from those who are not. Before Christ's work applied to us, however, we are by nature "objects of wrath." We do not please God, nor can we do so.



I hope that makes sense.



So in relation to this particular post, my premise is based upon the idea that Christians have a free will of sorts, because we are free in Christ to make choices that further the process of our sanctification.

5. salguod - 10/18/2004 7:16 am CDT

It makes a lot more sense to me now. You probably said those things before but for what ever reason I didn't get it then. So the idea then is that we seem to have free will before we are saved, but in reality we cannot help but to sin. It (perfection or 'being good') is an ideal that is a lie for we are powerless to achieve it. We are perhaps more or less successful than our neighbor, but ultimately sinful beyond our control. It is only becasue God has given us grace in Christ that we have a chance to be saved from this depravity.



So the lack of free will is not an inability to make any choice, but rather a limitation on making all the right choices. Our freedom is limited by our tendancy to sin.



Do I understand it correctly? If so, perhaps we dissagree less that I thought. How this plays out in our role in our own salvation and on the status of children before God, however, are areas we would still dissagree on, I think. :-)

6. Jared - 10/18/2004 8:20 am CDT

So the idea then is that we seem to have free will before we are saved, but in reality we cannot help but to sin. It (perfection or 'being good') is an ideal that is a lie for we are powerless to achieve it. We are perhaps more or less successful than our neighbor, but ultimately sinful beyond our control



Exactly.



It is only becasue God has given us grace in Christ that we have a chance to be saved from this depravity.



Yes, except I wouldn't say there's any "chance" at all involved. This sort of statement is appropos of a free-will soteriology. But I believe the grace in Christ has a definite effect, that is actually saves people, not that it merely provides an opportunity for them to be saved.



The difference is this . . .

What Free-Willers Say: Jesus' death on the cross makes salvation possible for anyone who chooses to believe.

What I and Others Like Me Say: Jesus' death on the cross makes salvation effectual for everyone whom God has chosen to believe.



So the lack of free will is not an inability to make any choice, but rather a limitation on making all the right choices. Our freedom is limited by our tendancy to sin.



Right. As I've said before in our discussion and in others, I don't deny the reality of the will or the reality of human choice. Only that the sinful nature is free to choose Jesus apart from Jesus setting it free to do so. In that sense, I wouldn't say it's our "tendency" to sin (although you are of course right), but our sinful nature. I'd describe that more as a bent toward sin -- an inner crookedness -- than as a tendency to sin (which seems more about behavior than nature).



How this plays out in our role in our own salvation and on the status of children before God, however, are areas we would still dissagree on, I think.



I think so too. From what I'd gathered based on our previous discussions it seems we have fundamental disagreements on the biblical notions of original sin and the extent of the atonement.

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