I called the Big Cheese at BC the other day and left a courteous message asking him to give me a call so I can discuss my options. He called back, left a message and said I have one of two choices: 1) I can hire an attorney and go before a judge, or 2) I can shake their Magic 8 Ball take a polygraph in BC in May, and if I pass he said they'd "amend my conditions."

He didn't say what they'd amend the conditions to. I doubt, even then, that they'd let me go home; they're too concerned with their liability to allow that, but they'd probably allow for some sort of contact.

After discussing this with Brandi and praying about it, we both felt like option 1 was the way to go. Option 2 is just not proactive, and I feel like we're in a proactive season right now, not a passive season. The time for waiting and reacting is over.

I called the Big Cheese back today and left him a message telling him we're pursuing option 1.