"If you continue to love Jesus, nothing much can go wrong with you, and I hope you may always do so. I'm so thankful that you realized [the] "hidden story" in the Narnian books. It is odd, children nearly always do, grown-ups hardly ever."

- C.S. Lewis
Bullying IS A Problem

As a follow-up to this personal post about how I was bullied as a child, I did a little research. Here's what I found:

Florida is currently working on the toughest anti-bullying law ever.

Although many school districts in Florida... have anti-bullying policies, the law would require each of the state's 67 districts to adopt a policy that complies with the new requirements by Dec. 1.

The law would not spell out which categories of students need protection, a fact that spurred debate in the House, but instead says that bullying or harassment of any student or school system employee for any reason is prohibited. Districts would be allowed to identify categories of students if they choose.

''When you start just putting categories in place, you'll never have enough categories to cover every child, so why don't we say that no child should be bullied,'' said Sen. Carey Baker, R-Eustis, who sponsored the bill. ``The fact is all children will be protected.''

In a 2005 national survey of students ages 12 to 18, about 28 percent reported having been bullied at school during the prior six months.

The proposed law mandates that each district's policy have in place a procedure for reporting incidents of bullying or harassment and the consequences.


Here's the actual text of the proposed law.
Basically it requires schools to have policies in place. Even cyber-bullying is included here.

Sad that it takes deaths to bring our attention to problems, but alas that seems to be the way it is. This law will be named after a 15 year old who killed himself because of bullying.

This brief article about the law has some good statistics about bullying. There's also a really good video clip on the bottom from "The Early Show". It's worth watching.

This story sums it all up for me.
“On April 16, 2002, my son, 14-year-old Jon Gettle, left his home during the night, walked 200 yards to his middle school and hung himself outside the 8th grade hallway. His note said, "Bullying is a problem". Cathy Gettle (NY) – Mother of Jon Gettle


My original post and subsequent comments have led me to start thinking about how to start a ministry for victims of bullying. I just haven't figured it all out yet.

And this video is a reminder of how serious the issue is. (Listen to the words of the song, while you are watching. Multi-tasking, I know, but you can do it :-)



There, but for the grace of God, is where I would have gone.

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Comments on "Bullying IS A Problem":
1. Milly - 05/08/2008 4:41 pm CDT

Philip,
I think it’s a great idea to start a ministry. I'm going to send my son’s youth minister and our intern this video. I’d love for them to be able to email you. Texas and Oklahoma aren’t that far and even though we come from different churches I think that this is very important.

Thank you

I’m praying

2. Philip - 05/09/2008 6:43 am CDT

Thanks Milly.

Let me just say that as a victim of bullying (and suicidal desires that went along with that)

that my church youth group saved my life.

I'm so glad that your son is in a youth group. I found love, acceptance and friends there that I never found at school. And it made a BIG difference. God gets the ultimate credit obviously (for all the good stuff), but most of who I am today I owe to my High School youth group and youth minister.

3. SD Jones - 05/09/2008 11:45 am CDT

Philip,
May the Lord bless you for posting this and your other post about bullying. I shared your experience from about 4th grade on as well. I remember once I was attacked in shop class. The teacher saw what was happening and left the room. 4 kids jumped on me and beat the hell out of me that day. Which was simply a continuance of most other days. In 9th grade I started lifting weights and bodybuilding, which helped with the physical stuff, but the verbal abuse still continued. My parents assumed I had done something to cause it and told me to ignore it. The schools did nothing. I was aware I was in serious trouble when I put a gun to my own head.
Last year, my 10 year old daughter received a written death threat in her backpack. The police got involved, but no one could make an accusation because there was not enough proof, only suspicion. Maybe that was a good thing, because I was seeing red and would have made a personal visit to the family's house with the intention of talking about the effects. However, I was aware that I was so hot with anger, I might be out of control.
No child should have to go through this and the excuse that "kids do bad things sometimes" or "kids will be kids" or "it is tough growing up" just doesn't cut it, especially for those kids in that video.
Peace to you brother and bless you for surviving it all. Our prayers to the families of those who did not and for our enemies who started it in the first place.
SD Jones

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