"The most important aspect of Christianity is not the work we do, but the relationship we maintain and the surrounding influence and qualities produced by that relationship. That is all God asks us to give our attention to, and it is the one thing that is continually under attack. "

- Oswald Chambers, My Utmost For His Highest
Our Father Neither Snickers Nor Sighs

I'm currently at work on my third book. I'd like to share bits and pieces as I go, if that's okay. The book is about the gospel (of course), and here is a passage from the chapter I finished today, which is on brokenness.

When our heavenly Father looks upon the broken mess of our lives, he doesn’t snicker or sigh. He ministers to us a sweeter comfort than any temporary and worldly comfort we’d sought before. We are told by the prophet, “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.” God doesn’t despise us in our brokenness; he comforts us in it. The greater the brokenness, the greater the impulse to trust him. The greater the trust in him, the greater the joy of his salvation. So, then, the further to the end of ourselves we go, the more of Christ we will enjoy.

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Comments on "Our Father Neither Snickers Nor Sighs":
1. Jim Elder - 02/17/2010 7:52 pm CST

Jared, this was really good. I have a message I'm working on for down the road entitled, "Let's Get Naked" - working title, probably will call it, "Removing the Garments that Keep Us Hidden" and it is dealing with our brokenness. This will be a great quote, if I may use it to your credit?

I appreciate the Thinklings a lot. I check it out every day to see what will challenge me, touch me, make me laugh, or just plain convict me. Thanks and God bless!

2. Jared - 02/17/2010 9:02 pm CST

Jim, feel free to use whatever you'd like. I'd be honored and happy to help.

3. Milly - 02/17/2010 9:54 pm CST

I needed to read this because last weekend was a horror with my ex. I wanted to go to him with a bottom line. Instead I gave the time to God. He calms and comforts us. He has given me the right way to handle the situations at hand in the right way. Good writing, thank you

4. nhe - 02/18/2010 7:03 am CST

Good stuff - one of these days I'll get these books!........I promise!

5. Whitney - 02/18/2010 8:00 am CST

Love it.
Dealing with a family situation to which this applies amazingly well.
Thanks for sharing.

6. Bird - 02/18/2010 3:53 pm CST

Beautiful.

7. Thirsty Bear - 02/18/2010 4:18 pm CST

Very good. Share more.

8. Jared - 02/18/2010 5:44 pm CST

Okay. Here's a somewhat lengthy expansion on the idea of idolatry as spiritual adultery. I'll post it right here so I don't clog up the main page with my scribblings.

God’s love for you is aflame with righteous zeal and just jealously. We are to hate idolatry because God got to us first, loved us first, owned us first, before the devil and his demons made any false promises to us through our idols.

Gospel wakened people feel swept off their feet by their romancing God. (If you’re a man, and this sort of “church as feminine” language bothers you, you will have to get over it. This is how God draws our character. You will have to nail your machismo to the cross and stop thinking you’re more of a man than your Groom.) When the power of the gospel saps the power of idols from our veins, when we have really tasted and seen that the Lord is good, we are so smitten we can’t help but ditch every back door Johnny we ever messed around with. How pathetic they are! And how pathetic we were for ever giving in to their two-bit come-ons.

A bride joined to her groom forsakes all others. She writes the spiritual equivalent of Dear John letters to her idols. When God’s love captivates you, you go around spurning all your other lovers. I call this “blaspheming” your idols.

Blaspheme them. Tell them they have no appeal to you any more. Tell them you don’t need their damage, their pain, their anti-glories. Tell them you have no desires to use and abuse them any more. Tell them your heart, mind, soul, and strength belong wholly to God now. And then don’t speak as a lover to them ever again. Sinful relationships must end.

Am I being hyperbolic? Sure. You can do all this simply by virtue of worshiping God in study, prayer, praise, service, and across-the-board meditation on the gospel.

Reflecting on 1 Thessalonians 1:9—“You turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God”—Ray Ortlund illustrates the blaspheming of idols this way:
You and I are not integrated, unified, whole persons. Our hearts are multi-divided. There is a board room in every heart. Big table. Leather chairs. Coffee. Bottled water. Whiteboard. A committee sits around the table. There is the social self, the private self, the work self, the sexual self, the recreational self, the religious self, and others. The committee is arguing and debating and voting. Constantly agitated and upset. Rarely can they come to a unanimous, wholehearted decision. We tell ourselves we’re this way because we’re so busy with so many responsibilities. The truth is, we’re just divided, unfocused, hesitant, unfree.

That kind of person can “accept Jesus” in either of two ways. One way is to invite him onto the committee. Give him a vote too. But then he becomes just one more complication. The other way to “accept Jesus” is to say to him, “My life isn’t working. Please come in and fire my committee, every last one of them. I hand myself over to you. I am your responsibility now. Please run my whole life for me.”

“Accepting Jesus” is not just adding Jesus. It is also subtracting the idols.

Ray’s prescription for blaspheming our idols means telling them, “You’re all fired,” and recognizing the sovereign Lord Jesus as chairman of our thought life, our work life, our family life, our sex life, our recreational life, and our emotional life. In Chapter 7 on Inevitable Holiness, we’ll explore some more ways to intentionally de-idolize our lives. As the prophet says, “There are 50 ways to leave your lover.” But leave him you must. And don’t be too demure to slam the door on the way out.

9. Bill - 02/18/2010 6:10 pm CST

Mother of Pearl, but that's good stuff Jared!

Man, I'm excited about this book!

10. Riley - 02/19/2010 9:00 am CST

Great post! The beauty of the gospel to me is that God, fully holy and righteous and glorious... He loves us. Only because of Jesus. How much more our love should be for Him and what He has done. Praise God! Really, some good stuff. I know God continues to use you to communicate the gravity of Truth. Praying for you.

11. Thirsty Bear - 02/19/2010 11:53 am CST

Very nice. I like the analogy.

Thank you, Jared.

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